Wrangl3r93
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Ok before anybody reads this i'm gonna warn them that this topic is very controversial and i'm not looking to start a debate over this just get some stuff off my mind so i can finally get some sleep after about a week. I will post none of my beliefs as they are not important(again tryin to avoid this turning sour).
I recently found out that one of my best friends is pregnant. She is only 16, a cheerleader, beautiful, and very strong willed girl. About a month ago she grew very distant and i hadn't really talked to her much without her snapping my head off until the other night when she needed someone to cover her shift for her so she could head to the doctor. I got it covered for her and went to leave and wanted to tell her bye before i left and overheard her talkin to another one of my friends on the phone and this is how i found out why she has been avoiding me. I brought it up and got her talkin and everything is ok between us again, but she informed me that she was going to have an abortion(this is where i don't want anybody's hackles to rise). I talked to her long and hard about it and told her that it's ultimately her decision and i stand behind her no matter what. The father is an a$$(if he ever pokes his head out again i'm gonna kill him) and her ex bf had been takin care of her and now we are sharing the load. I've been pulling so many hours at work taking her shifts. She went and got the shot yesterday and today started the rest of the procedure. She's scared and this isn't what she wants but i believe she sees no other way. I've only talked to her once since it all started and just the sound of pain in her voice brought me to tears right in front of everybody at work. I haven't been able to get in touch with her since and i'm starting to freak. I'm just asking that you can suspend your beliefs and help me pray that she will be ok. This is starting to get to be too much to post so i'm gonna cut it there and try to lay down. Just i don't want this to turn into an argument that has already been beat to death where there is no black or white so i'm gonna ask yet again to please not post beliefs and just wish this girl some luck cause things haven't been going her way lately. Thanks Guys.
,Matt
I recently found out that one of my best friends is pregnant. She is only 16, a cheerleader, beautiful, and very strong willed girl. About a month ago she grew very distant and i hadn't really talked to her much without her snapping my head off until the other night when she needed someone to cover her shift for her so she could head to the doctor. I got it covered for her and went to leave and wanted to tell her bye before i left and overheard her talkin to another one of my friends on the phone and this is how i found out why she has been avoiding me. I brought it up and got her talkin and everything is ok between us again, but she informed me that she was going to have an abortion(this is where i don't want anybody's hackles to rise). I talked to her long and hard about it and told her that it's ultimately her decision and i stand behind her no matter what. The father is an a$$(if he ever pokes his head out again i'm gonna kill him) and her ex bf had been takin care of her and now we are sharing the load. I've been pulling so many hours at work taking her shifts. She went and got the shot yesterday and today started the rest of the procedure. She's scared and this isn't what she wants but i believe she sees no other way. I've only talked to her once since it all started and just the sound of pain in her voice brought me to tears right in front of everybody at work. I haven't been able to get in touch with her since and i'm starting to freak. I'm just asking that you can suspend your beliefs and help me pray that she will be ok. This is starting to get to be too much to post so i'm gonna cut it there and try to lay down. Just i don't want this to turn into an argument that has already been beat to death where there is no black or white so i'm gonna ask yet again to please not post beliefs and just wish this girl some luck cause things haven't been going her way lately. Thanks Guys.
,Matt