With 32" tires the d30 should hold up pretty well. 9 times out of 10 the d35 rear axle will be the first of the two to fail. Sounds like your failure may not be due to a weak axle, but simply the failure of a serviceable part.
There are no 'easy' front axle upgrades for a TJ, short of a d44 from a Rubicon but it's not much of an upgrade. Problem finding an axle is having to make the wheel lug pattern work as well as welding on all the required brackets.