TwistedCopper said:The only thing I would like to note is that Social Rob continues to use examples of a few to stereotype the many when dicussing Christians. You are the one with hatred inside you Rob. Your posts reek of it.
Hatred, no. Frustration, yes. I respect TRUE Christians. I do not respect those who claim to be Christian, yet use their faith to justify bigotry.
TwistedCopper said:Also, your futile attempt to back up your statement that homosexuality is a genetic, bological, or simply anything other than choice was based on the Swedish study examining the reaction of a brain. Well this does not show anything of the sort. It is comparable to Pavlov's dog salivating when the dinner bell rings. Learned behavior.
Um, I think you need to head back to high school biology. The body's response to pheromones cannot be learned. It is a biological effect. The body encounters pheromones and reacts. There's nothing learned about it. Pavlov's dogs learned that bell = food. Eventually - and the key point is, eventually - they became conditioned to where they salivated when the bell rang in anticipation of food. In the case of the Swedish study, people were subjected to pheromones and the brain's response was measured. In the case of gay men and heterosexual women, the response was the same to male pheromones. Heterosexual men did not respond to the pheromones of other men; instead, they responded to female pheromones. There is absolutely no learned behavior here.
TwistedCopper said:My problem is I am tired of people claiming that it is scientific fact that homosexuality is a genetic or biological condition. It is not scientific fact. That's all I am saying, that's why I asked for proof, and once again, it cannot be proven.
It's pretty darn hard to prove anything with 100% certainty. However, once can gather evidence and make reasonable conclusions. Has it been proven with absolute certainty that gay people are born gay? Not yet. But there is a pile of evidence that suggests homosexuality is biological in nature. Scientists have identified genes that govern sexuality for goodness sakes. So, in the end, there is evidence that sexuality is biologically determined. There is no evidence that it is a choice. And who would know better than gay people if it's a choice. Ask them. They'll all say no. So, either every gay person is lying or perhaps there's something to the biological argument after all.
TwistedCopper said:Social Rob, you assume because I am unwilling to believe the fruitless claims of your community that I am some sort of gay-hater. I am not. I am a BS hater.
My community? Which community would that be? The free thinking one? And just like you, I am a BS hater. And saying that gay people choose their orientation is nothing but grade A+ BS.
TwistedCopper said:You all have the right to do whatever you like, just don't distort the truth to make yourselves sound like poor victims of nature in order to justify it. If you are gay, and you like being gay, then be gay - without an explanation. It is pitiful to cower behind lies just because so many look down upon it. If you are comfortable with it then you shouldn't need to get anyone's consent.
What is pitiful is the "loving Christians" out there who subject gay people to all sorts of dehumanizing rhetoric, who bash them, who kill them, who subject them to pointless conversion therapy. The only people cowering behind a lie are those who believe sexuality is a choice. You didn't choose your heterosexuality, did you? No more than a gay person chose his or her homosexuality.
You just can't stand the idea that your "loving" God made gay people. So you lie about it. Gay people have to choose their orientation or you can't exactly look down upon them, can you? Maybe you don't hate them, but you do look down upon them. And you certainly don't want to show them the same respect you show other members of society.
TwistedCopper said:Why it is so important for homosexuals to somehow justify their actions by trying to instill false beliefs unto society?
Because the beliefs aren't false. The idiotic false belief is the one that gay people choose their orientation. I've offered several bits of evidence - from scientific study to direct interviews - as proof that gay people are born gay. You have offered nothing - nada, zip, zilch - that gay people choose their orientation. Because you can't offer anything. All you can do is repeat the lie over and over and over again - and hope it sticks.
Luckily it is not sticking. Just look at the poll numbers. Each year more and more people accept that homosexuality is biological in nature. When I was in high school, there were no openly gay kids. Today gay kids take dates to the prom - and other kids could care less.
TwistedCopper said:Why would it be so difficult to admit that you just prefer things that way? I'll tell you why - it's because you seek acceptance from those who would normally or naturally be repulsed by it, so you appeal to them as victims. It is cowardly. A very effective tactic, yes, but very cowardly.
How is love in any form repulsive? Or, are you also just fixated on the sex act?
TwistedCopper said:Lastly, as for the one example of the guy in DC and the "therapy" you mentioned (again one example to try to describe the norm)...
I mentioned no therapy, you did. I am speaking of men and women that CHOSE to turn from that "lifestyle". They exist and I have personally met and discussed these very topics with them. They only strengthen my viewpoint.
I'm sure you've met some very sad gay people who have forced themselves back into the closet. I don't doubt this. But that doesn't mean they aren't gay. It just means they are doing everything possible to will themselves to be straight. The guy in DC is just one example of what happens when someone who chooses to deny his/her true identity finally breaks. And they do break. Over and over and over again. So, maybe the people you've met talk a good game. Maybe they even believe it themselves. But eventually, they will collapse under the weight of the lie - and seek out a guy on the Internet, or visit a gay bar on a business trip, or whatever. As they say, the leopard doesn't change its spots.
So, in the end, you offer no proof, no evidence, nothing to justify your bigotry. And all of the proof I've offered is somehow tainted or faulty. How convenient. Yet another example of how dogma enslaves the mind.
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