90Xjay said:You know after reviewing this thread, I've realized a few things. How desperate people can be when trying shove a belief system down your throat. When out of one side of the matter we hear "it's my private life and what happens in my bedroom is my business" then in the next breath. "It's normal and your should just accept my lifestyle without saying one word or expressing your opinon"
The only people trying to shove a belief system down anyone's throat are the right wing. It's Jesus or bust. Being gay isn't a lifestyle. It's how one is born. You can point to the Bible (or whatever religious text) all you want, but that doesn't change the truth. This isn't about accepting a lifestyle. It's about showing respect and not belittling, degrading, or devaluing another person or his/her relationship. And until the right wing shows some respect, I certainly won't show any towards them.
90Xjay said:Now more than ever it is vital for people of principal to stand up to the outright lies being foisted upon society by the left wing. The liberal left wing seems to believe that if they tell the lie (whatever it is) enough, it will become truth. Science isn't important. Evidence isn't important. Fact isn't important. Just keep repeating the same thing over and over again - and somehow it will become truth.
This is just silly. The only people who ignore scientific truth are the right wing because it causes a moral quandry for them. How can science prove X, but the Bible state Y? Oh no. Better believe the Bible. No evidence, but we'll believe it anyway. Give me a break.
90Xjay said:This debate has really discouraged me. Just because I don't think the way you do and have a biblical outlook on these matters, I am called a bigot and accused of ridicule and discrimination. Where is the "tolorance" you scream about Rob for my views? Am I the only one who is supposed to stand around and listen to some of this garbage and keep my mouth shut. Are my rights to an opinion second hand to yours?
I have no tolerance for views that suggest a group of people aren't equal, normal, and deserving of the same rights and privileges as all other members of society. If you tell me you believe in creationism and accept all people, regardless of sex, ethnicity, sexual orientation, whatever, I have no problem with that. If you tell me that the creator/designer made them all and they all deserve to be treated equally and with respect, I will say bravo! I still won't believe in a creator. But I will respect your beliefs. However, if you suggest that any group of people - in this thread's case, gay people - are somehow not equal, I have no tolerance for that viewpoint. Anyone who uses myth, dogma, even science to degrade another human being, to somehow suggest (stated or otherwise) that such a person is lesser doesn't deserve tolerance. It is such thinking that gave us the crusades, witch burning, slavery, the holocaust, and countless other crimes against humanity. And what do all of these events have in common? Religious - Christian - justification. I don't see the Buddhists or the Hindus or the Native Americans or the Australian Aborigines or... committing genocide. It's largely a western/Christian phenomenon. Sorry, can't get around it.
I won't accept bullsh*t like the Marriage Amendment writing discrimination into our constitution. I won't accept religious psuedo-science such as conversion therapy ruining lives. And I won't show tolerance towards any person who approaches the issue from this perspective. I will simply stand up to him or her and debate the issue on facts, something dogmatic thinkers can't handle because they have no facts in their arsenal, just "faith."
90Xjay said:Just because I don't agree with someones lifestyle or religous training, does not mean that when I meet that person in a store or on the street that they do not get a handshake and hello from me. One of my best friends is of a totally diferent faith. You paint people who disagree with your as anti-social, anti-mainstream, and non-enlightened. You should not use such broad strokes when you paint my friend.
Anyone who says gay people make a choice is not enlightened. I'm sorry. There are some absolutes. I have a great disdain for organized religion and the Christian faith in particular. More people have been murdered in Christ's name than any other, yet Christians talk endlessly about love and tolerance. Where is it? What of the kids who are routinely molested by clergy, only to have said clergy shipped off to some "rehabilitation" center and not stand trial? And what of the gay people who are taught every day to feel shame for being what they are. What of the repeated genocide committed in the name of God (Christian or otherwise)? Where is the love? Where is the tolerance? What purpose does religion serve other than to drive a wedge between people?
90Xjay said:The truth is the world is not headed in the right direction. Turn on the news and after an hour of CNN you'll likey be disgusted. The world and society is a wreck. Some societys in Europe are already there, like in someplaces where the Netherlands where pedofiles are free to roam without fear of proscecution.
Drugs, gambling, selfishness, greed, murder, abortion by the millions, the things that can ruin a people.
America and her people are hurting.
I am disgusted when I turn on the news. I see the US destabilizing an entire region of the world. I see the US maintaining a gulag in another nation, depriving individuals of due process. I see the US colluding with other nations to run secret prisons. I see millions of people dying of AIDS because the Catholic Church won't support the use of birth control. I see more and more people starving while US oil companies reap record profits. I see drug company profits soar while 3rd World countries suffer horrible pandemics. I see American kids graduating from high school unable to read and write while trillions of dollars get pumped into stupid ideas like a missle shield. And I could go on and on.
I also see other countries being able to debate these issues while we stick our heads in the sand.
Yes, America and her people are hurting. But they aren't hurting because of a lack of God. They are hurting because the same righteous right wing that preaches intolerance towards gay people is all about corporate profits at the expense of the public. Every American alive today is in debt over $30K. That's how HUGE our deficit is. And who's going to be saddled with that burden? Our kids. Our kids' kids. And who holds most of our debt? China. They don't even have to fire a single shot to win the war. They'll own us pretty soon.
Have you even been to Europe? Let's see....every country has a far lower murder rate, crime rate, abortion rate, etc. than the US. They also have far better health care for EVERY member of their society and a better education system. Do they have problems? Absolutely. But they are hardly the wreck we are.
And abortion? Why do you suppose that happens? American kids aren't taught about sex. They aren't given the resources to prevent pregnancy. Instead, they are fed some inane abstinence mumbo-jumbo. So they get pregnant. I'd also like to know why all the good Christians who hope to deprive a woman of her right to choose aren't lining up to adopt the babies. So long as the baby is born, that's all the matters? Who cares if it lives a miserable life from that point on? And, for the record, I am ethically opposed to abortion. However, I'm far more opposed to the idea of a society that forces women to bring unwanted kids into the world, only to have those kids neglected - or worse.
But no, none of this matters. Instead, let's worry about gay marriage (or something equally non-consequential). Let's be guided by "faith", not reason. Let's preach abstinence and then marvel at the high abortion rate. Let's spend our tax money making giant corporations rich while the public is thrown crumbs.
Am I intolerant towards this way of thinking? Absolutely. And I make no apologies for that.
And, yes, I know we're on a huge tangent now. I also want to make it clear that I'm not directing the latter part of my post towards you personally. I'm merely giving my opinion on why this country is "hurting" and some of the forces I perceive to be at work. What side of these arguments you fall upon, I do not know.
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